September playlist of the month

These are just some old songs that mean a lot to me (I had such a Mamma Mia phase when I was around 14, it's kind of embarassing how often I saw that movie)

I hope everyone is well, I know it's already October today, but I didn't find time to write sooner, sorry.

Love,

Pluto

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menstrual cups and feminism

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