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A blog in 2020?

Yeah, I decided to start a blog in 2020, and no, no one reads it (yet? Insert hopeful smile).

Here's a list of why:

1. I want to use it as a creative outlet. I love to write (fiction and also essay type of stuff) and I want to get better at writing and also challenge myslef.

2. I also want to write about my experiences, and hopefully help people, that go though similar things, feel less alone.

3. I want to just have fun and maybe share some outfits or things I made. 

4. I love reading blogs, and I have a hard time finding ones that still post things and aren't just archives (if anyone knows good blogs, hit me up). Cringe culture is dead, embrace tradition. Make blogs a thing again :)

5. I'm shy and I don't want to start a YouTube channel or something similar. Blogs feel more intimate and anonymous somehow.

That's all for today, 

Hugs,

Pluto

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